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Mangalore Party Attack: What is Ailing ?

August 1, 2012
Mangalore Party Attack: What is Ailing ?

The attack on a few students who were partying in a home stay in Mangalore on Saturday has drawn negative focus to the city once again. The incident has opened a debate on the behaviour, roles and responsibilities of the students, Parents, Media and the Police, who are all stake holders in a society.

Living in Harmony is possible only if all the stake holders contribute their parts positively. While the attack on the students has been widely condemned, it also has brought to focus the widening gap between a generation of young who want to have their way to live life where 'freedom' or right to do things is taken for granted, and the other section which believes in preserving traditions, values and culture and are less accommodating to the wishes of the former group.

Is the incident an exception and does not happen elsewhere in the country ? Or, is it a 'stray case' as opined by the ADGP ? Was the incident hyped-up too much by the media ? Is it an indication of growing intolerance among the people ?

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Avinash Shetty03-08-2012:

'Freedom' without 'responsibility' is as bad as no freedom at all. The incident has once more highloighted the rot in our society - where young people think they can do anything and nobody can question them asn they think they have the license or freedom to do anything they want. They should realise that there are some limits and cultural boundaries within which they need to act - we are not living in US or UK. Blind copy of western coulture has already ruined our social fabric and I think revellers have to mind the sentiments and values of the local people also.

devil03-08-2012:

hi brother i agree but the attackers who behaved with those girls, it really showed you any cultural Discipline of India.. we Indians always respect girls... kok if any one did wrong this is the way to treat them and there is a law to punish every one. why this HJV members always creat a Controversy, if they need publicity they can find other ways...... i dont think that HJV members would have been become great Indians by this ok... first of all they have to learn respect each and every Indian not only HIndus....

Hindustani03-08-2012:

Yes .. And So many people are still in dark.. When they open their inner eyes.First broaden the mind and learn to respect others.For all these things it is not right to abuse all parents.

Avinash03-08-2012:

Yes brother, agree with you that the attack on anybody is condemnable. No one take the law into his hands. But the behaviour of the students in a homestay also did not bring good name to Mangalore either..

DARK03-08-2012:

I am very Happy about this matter.I wish another 4-5 attack should take place in BANGALORE so that Girls have wearing small small clothes would not be wondering here and there(pubs,Bars.etc) with Boys .And who are protested against this,first Both we and police should have to beat them and their family vigorously...

bharath03-08-2012:

what do u mean by wandering in small small clothes? are you telling that if girls get dressed up in sarees and attend parties then it is acceptable? and moreover who do u think you or the police are to dictate terms and decide what the parents of these children should do?

DARK08-08-2012:

You dont know who am i ? I Do/speak what i like, not u buddy..BTW please dont interfere in my idea.if u dont like my comments you just ignore it.ok otherwise .............u cant imagine

double dark14-08-2012:

who cares about who you and moreover u hav de option of ignoring too

Ganesh03-08-2012:

ಇಲ್ಲಿ ಕೇವಲ ಸಂಘಟನೆಯದ್ದು ಮಾತ್ರಾ ಪಾತ್ರ ಅಲ್ಲ , ಹುಟ್ಟುಹಬ್ಬವನ್ನು ಮನೆಯಲ್ಲಿ ಕೂಡಾ ಆಚರಿಸಬಹುದಲ್ಲಾ ? ಅದಕ್ಕೆ ಏಕೆ ಹೋಂ ಸ್ಟೇ ಆಗಬೇಕು. ಹೀಗಾಗಿ ಹೆತ್ತವರದ್ದೂ ಇಲ್ಲಿ ಪಾತ್ರ ಇದೆ.

devil03-08-2012:

ಹುಟ್ಟುಹಬ್ಬವನ್ನು ಹೋಂ ಸ್ಟೇ ನಲ್ಲಿ ಆಚರಿಸಿದರೆ ತಪ್ಪೇನಿದೆ? ಸಂಘಟನೆಯಲ್ಲಿ ಹಣ ಪಡೆದುಕೊಂಡು ಆಚರಿಸುತ್ತಿಲ್ಲವಲ್ಲ..

Royston02-08-2012:

The attack on a few students who were partying in a home stay in Mangalore on Saturday has drawn negative focus to the city once again.It is true,but the indepth study as to be done in terms of involved persons are they from some group or where they hired to do something because companion rivalry etc. In one angle everything was well planed and fixed.

Nagaraj02-08-2012:

The la affair home stay will have to be seen as an attack by the "mast maza madu maga" life culture on the traditional Indian socio-cultural philosophy of life. That is the way the majority of the people of Mangalore have reacted and the majority of people of Karnataka feel. this 'Mast Maza Madu Maga" culture is a carbon copy and imitation of decaying western culture. As usual the educated class has fallen for it and think it is all that they should do because it happens to be "phoren" and must be right. But they do not know that ultimately this will lead to an increase in the population of girls getting pregnant at 13-14 and getting ruined for life and boys ceasing to be boys. They would be neither boys nor grown up men but broken pieces. So, only those who want India to become a sick society should encourage this "mast maga culture." One should not forget these mast maga people are in a minority. it is time that the majority acts to stop the minority from ruining the happiness of the majority as well. Yes there should be intervention by the people but it should be peaceful and confined to forcing the authorities to take note of such thins and move against them as per law.

srinivas02-08-2012:

is it way to keep up our tradition? it is not the matter freedom or the right to do things taken for granted it is the matter of how the moral policies are being learnt?

Indian02-08-2012:

First of all lets be very clear on how define culture. Culture can never be dictated or designed by someone. It just belongs to the person as to how one wants to live his/her life. Ya, the older generation did not have much access to internet, media, money or drugs - BUT that is not the fault of the current generation. When there is restraint on dressing style and social gathering for the sake of so called "self dignity & social acceptance", how can u call it freedom?

I strongly feel its just their desperate frustration that these goons are venting out on the kids outside. These hooligans don't have an option to live and socialize the way the victims did. In addition, the "MORAL POLICE" team were drunk as they executed their social responsibility - HOW COOL IS THAT? and they justify the assault on girls which is nothing less than rape - on the name of morality and culture.

There is a change and in history, every change went smooth, but was oppressed and challenged. It's just the same. A few in the society cannot cop with these inevitable changes. However, regardless of whatever means they take to prevent this, its going to happen and no one can stop it. May be they should learn a bit of tolerance, learn the virtue of respect, and direct their attention to the struggles of the humanity - there are millions out there hungry, oppressed, and downtrodden - than raping girls for the way they dress.

Prabheesh vs08-08-2012:

Not the case what and who, the supreme law of the state shouldn't be violated. the un authorized people who are taking law on their hands should be cruelly punished. there is no use just have proud about our Indian constitution . state should be execute that. may be a dream , but in such cases have to take action on such people without the interference of 'Indian politics'.

yogitha02-08-2012:

ಸ್ವಾತಂತ್ರ ಭಾರತ ಎಂದು ಘೋಷಿಸಿಕೊಂಡರು ಕೂಡ ಸ್ವಾತಂತ್ರ ಇರದ ಪರಿಸ್ಥಿತಿಗೆ ಈ ಘಟನೆ ಕಾರಣವಾಗಿದೆ. ತಮ್ಮ ಮನೆಯ ಸಮಸ್ಯೆ ಬಗೆಹರಿಸಲು ಸಾಧ್ಯವಾದ ಪುಂಡರು ದೇಶದ ಸಮಸ್ಯೆ ಬಗೆರೆಸುತ್ತೆವೆಂದು ಹಣೆಪಟ್ಟಿಯೊಂದಿಗೆ ಇಂತಹ ಕಾರ್ಯ ಕಂಡನೀಯ. ಮಹಿಳೆಯರು ಸಬಲೆಯರು ಎಂದು ಹೇಳಿಕೊಂಡರು ಇಂತಹ ಸಾಲು ಸಾಲು ಘಟನೆಗಳು ಅದನ್ನು ಪ್ರಶ್ನಿಸುವಂತೆ ಮಾಡುತ್ತದೆ.

Bharath03-08-2012:

Welcome to India a land which respects woman and protects a culture and tradition of thousands of years by molesting, assaulting woman in public. this is the situation in our country where a guy is not punished because he is involved in a rape incident instead a girl is blamed for wearing indecent apparel. animals don't wear clothes at all do we see them attacking every other animal NO if they mind their own business then Y cant the so called activists so it too.

devil07-08-2012:

yea we need goonda's or rowdi's like this.... who(Sanga parivara) won't give respect to girls in India... you are saying like this na?
only Sanga Parivar can't rule India k dont spoil Sanga parivar's name connect with this incident... The HJV members should be punished severely under Law.....

Citizen03-08-2012:

What ever the matter happened there is up to their life style. If they are real Hindus,they would have not beat the girls in that way. They could have leave them to handle by police. But they took power and molested the girls! This is totally wrong.

devil07-08-2012:

yea we need goonda's or rowdi's like this.... who(Sanga parivara) won't give respect to girls in India... you are saying like this na?
only Sanga Parivar can't rule India k dont spoil Sanga parivar's name connect with this incident... The HJV members should be punished severely under Law.....

Darshan Bm03-08-2012:

ಇದು ನಿಜಕ್ಕೂ ಖಂಡನಾರ್ಹ. ಹೆಣ್ಣನ್ನು ಮಾತೆ ಎಂದು ಕರೆಯುವ ಈ ಸಂಘಟನೆಗಳು ಹೆಣ್ಣಿನ ಮೇಲೆ ಈ ರೀತಿ ಹಲ್ಲೆ ನಡೆಸಿರುವುದು ಅಮಾನವೀಯ. ಸರಕಾರ ತಪಿತಸ್ಥರ ವಿರುದ್ದ ಹಾಗೂ ಕ್ರಮ ತೆಗೆದುಕೊಳಬೇಕು. ಯಾರೋ ಕೆಲವು ಕೆಲವು ವ್ಯಕ್ತಿಗಳಿಂದ ಈಡೀ ಸಂಘಟನೆಗೆ ಒಂದು ಕೆಟ್ಟ ಹೆಸರು. ಅಂತಹ ಸಂಘಟನೆಗಳೂ ಕೂಡಾ ಅವರ ವಿರುದ್ಧ ಕ್ರಮ ತೆಗೆದುಕೊಳಬೇಕು. ಇಂತಹ ಘಟನೆಗಳು ಮರುಕಳಿಸದಂತೆ ಸರಕಾರವು ಹೊಸ ಕಾನೂನುಗಳನ್ನು ತರಬೇಕಿದೆ.

devil07-08-2012:

yea we need goonda's or rowdi's like this.... who(Sanga parivara) won't give respect to girls in India... you are saying like this na?
only Sanga Parivar can't rule India k dont spoil Sanga parivar's name connect with this incident... The HJV members should be punished severely under Law.....

Chaitra04-08-2012:

well whatever the situation may be,no political party on mere group has the right to 'crash' into somebody's private issues.Is beating up of girls like animals something to be proud of? and can such an action so violet and narrow minded be the solution for any problem??????

devil07-08-2012:

yea we need goonda's or rowdi's like this.... who(Sanga parivara) won't give respect to girls in India... you are saying like this na?
only Sanga Parivar can't rule India k dont spoil Sanga parivar's name connect with this incident... The HJV members should be punished severely under Law.....

C.S Anthara05-08-2012:

ಅದು ನಿಜಕ್ಕೂ "Birth day Party" ಈ ವಾಕ್ಯವನ್ನು ಯಾವ ರೀತಿಯಲ್ಲಿ ಬೇಕಾದ್ರೂ ಅವಲೋಕಿಸಬಹುದು. ನಮ್ಮ ಮೊದಲ ದ್ನ ಈ ಭೂಮಿಯಲ್ಲಿ "Birth day" ದಂದು ನಾವು ಹೇಗೆ "ವಿವಸ್ತ್ರರಾಗಿರುತ್ತೇವೋ" ಹಾಗೆ ಇನ್ನೊಂದು ರೀತಿಯಲ್ಲಿ ಚಿಂತನೆ ಮಾಡಿದ್ರೆ ಹೆಣ್ಣು ಮಕ್ಕಳು 9 ತಿಂಗಳ ನಂತ್ರ ಮಗುವಿಗೆ ಜನ್ಮ ನೀಡುವ "Birth day Party" ಗೆ ಪೂರ್ವ ತಯಾರಿ ಈ ಹೋಮ್ ಸ್ಟೇಯ ಚಿತ್ರಣಗಳು. ನನಗೆ ಈ ಸಂದೇಹ ಯಾಕೆ ಎಂದರೆ ಅರೆ ಬರೆ ಬಟ್ಟೆ ಉಟ್ಟು "Birth day Party" ನಡೆಸುವ ಸಂಪ್ರದಾಯದವರು ನಾವಲ್ಲ. ಆದರೂ ಮಂಗಳೂರು ಹೋಮ್ ಸ್ಟೇ ದಾಳಿ ಖಂಡನಾರ್ಹ. ಉತ್ತಮ ಸಂಸ್ಕಾರದ ಸಮಾಜ ನಿಮ್ರಿಸಬೇಕಾದರೆ ಆಗಾಗ ಇಂತಹ ಆಕ್ರಮಣಶಾಲಿ ಮನೋಭಾವ ಅತ್ಯಗತ್ಯ ಏನಂತೀರ.......?

devil07-08-2012:

yea we need goonda's or rowdi's like this.... who(Sanga parivara) won't give respect to girls in India... you are saying like this na?
only Sanga Parivar can't rule India k dont spoil Sanga parivar's name connect with this incident... The HJV members should be punished severely under Law.....

Anusha Dsouza06-08-2012:

people dont have any rights to hit o critisize anybody... people have rights to freedom n the attack was completely against the law.... the attack was done n story simply created against youngsters... we have rights to party n njoy... the attackers must be severely punished n such organisations who support such events must be curbed....

devil07-08-2012:

yea we need goonda's or rowdi's like this.... who(Sanga parivara) won't give respect to girls in India... you are saying like this na?
only Sanga Parivar can't rule India k dont spoil Sanga parivar's name connect with this incident... The HJV members should be punished severely under Law.....

Harish Rao B06-08-2012:

Good job done by who is attacking the party. . . Now a days grls dnt knw wat s d indian or hindu culture. . Every city we want tat type of pepople(Sanga parivara). . Kep it up guys. .

devil07-08-2012:

yea we need goonda's or rowdi's like this.... who(Sanga parivara) won't give respect to girls in India... you are saying like this na?
only Sanga Parivar can't rule India k dont spoil Sanga parivar's name connect with this incident... The HJV members should be punished severely under Law.....

Latha01-08-2012:

This is definitely not a stray case as we hear increasing number of such incidents happening around us. Youngsters today have access to a lot of information on the net& media, have easy access to money, drugs etc and are way ahead of their older generation at their younger days. It is important that they have their freedom but not at the cost of self dignity, social acceptance. All learning begins at home, and parents should guide their children and be aware of the childrens wherabouts. Beating up is definitley not the way to go. The so called "moral policers" should refrain from physical abuse but instead create awareness among the youth. Media should definitely stop publishing have nude pictures and should take to positive reporting.

Bharath03-08-2012:

Welcome to India a land which respects woman and protects a culture and tradition of thousands of years by molesting, assaulting woman in public. this is the situation in our country where a guy is not punished because he is involved in a rape incident instead a girl is blamed for wearing indecent apparel. animals don't wear clothes at all do we see them attacking every other animal NO if they mind their own business then Y cant the so called activists so it too.

Citizen03-08-2012:

What ever the matter happened there is up to their life style. If they are real Hindus,they would have not beat the girls in that way. They could have leave them to handle by police. But they took power and molested the girls! This is totally wrong.

Darshan Bm03-08-2012:

ಇದು ನಿಜಕ್ಕೂ ಖಂಡನಾರ್ಹ. ಹೆಣ್ಣನ್ನು ಮಾತೆ ಎಂದು ಕರೆಯುವ ಈ ಸಂಘಟನೆಗಳು ಹೆಣ್ಣಿನ ಮೇಲೆ ಈ ರೀತಿ ಹಲ್ಲೆ ನಡೆಸಿರುವುದು ಅಮಾನವೀಯ. ಸರಕಾರ ತಪಿತಸ್ಥರ ವಿರುದ್ದ ಹಾಗೂ ಕ್ರಮ ತೆಗೆದುಕೊಳಬೇಕು. ಯಾರೋ ಕೆಲವು ಕೆಲವು ವ್ಯಕ್ತಿಗಳಿಂದ ಈಡೀ ಸಂಘಟನೆಗೆ ಒಂದು ಕೆಟ್ಟ ಹೆಸರು. ಅಂತಹ ಸಂಘಟನೆಗಳೂ ಕೂಡಾ ಅವರ ವಿರುದ್ಧ ಕ್ರಮ ತೆಗೆದುಕೊಳಬೇಕು. ಇಂತಹ ಘಟನೆಗಳು ಮರುಕಳಿಸದಂತೆ ಸರಕಾರವು ಹೊಸ ಕಾನೂನುಗಳನ್ನು ತರಬೇಕಿದೆ.

Chaitra04-08-2012:

well whatever the situation may be,no political party on mere group has the right to 'crash' into somebody's private issues.Is beating up of girls like animals something to be proud of? and can such an action so violet and narrow minded be the solution for any problem??????

C.S Anthara05-08-2012:

ಅದು ನಿಜಕ್ಕೂ "Birth day Party" ಈ ವಾಕ್ಯವನ್ನು ಯಾವ ರೀತಿಯಲ್ಲಿ ಬೇಕಾದ್ರೂ ಅವಲೋಕಿಸಬಹುದು. ನಮ್ಮ ಮೊದಲ ದ್ನ ಈ ಭೂಮಿಯಲ್ಲಿ "Birth day" ದಂದು ನಾವು ಹೇಗೆ "ವಿವಸ್ತ್ರರಾಗಿರುತ್ತೇವೋ" ಹಾಗೆ ಇನ್ನೊಂದು ರೀತಿಯಲ್ಲಿ ಚಿಂತನೆ ಮಾಡಿದ್ರೆ ಹೆಣ್ಣು ಮಕ್ಕಳು 9 ತಿಂಗಳ ನಂತ್ರ ಮಗುವಿಗೆ ಜನ್ಮ ನೀಡುವ "Birth day Party" ಗೆ ಪೂರ್ವ ತಯಾರಿ ಈ ಹೋಮ್ ಸ್ಟೇಯ ಚಿತ್ರಣಗಳು. ನನಗೆ ಈ ಸಂದೇಹ ಯಾಕೆ ಎಂದರೆ ಅರೆ ಬರೆ ಬಟ್ಟೆ ಉಟ್ಟು "Birth day Party" ನಡೆಸುವ ಸಂಪ್ರದಾಯದವರು ನಾವಲ್ಲ. ಆದರೂ ಮಂಗಳೂರು ಹೋಮ್ ಸ್ಟೇ ದಾಳಿ ಖಂಡನಾರ್ಹ. ಉತ್ತಮ ಸಂಸ್ಕಾರದ ಸಮಾಜ ನಿಮ್ರಿಸಬೇಕಾದರೆ ಆಗಾಗ ಇಂತಹ ಆಕ್ರಮಣಶಾಲಿ ಮನೋಭಾವ ಅತ್ಯಗತ್ಯ ಏನಂತೀರ.......?

Anusha Dsouza06-08-2012:

people dont have any rights to hit o critisize anybody... people have rights to freedom n the attack was completely against the law.... the attack was done n story simply created against youngsters... we have rights to party n njoy... the attackers must be severely punished n such organisations who support such events must be curbed....

Harish Rao B06-08-2012:

Good job done by who is attacking the party. . . Now a days grls dnt knw wat s d indian or hindu culture. . Every city we want tat type of pepople(Sanga parivara). . Kep it up guys. .

devil07-08-2012:

yea we need goonda's or rowdi's like this.... who(Sanga parivara) won't give respect to girls in India... you are saying like this na?
only Sanga Parivar can't rule India k dont spoil Sanga parivar's name connect with this incident... The HJV members should be punished severely under Law.....

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